Have you ever made a mistake? Of course, you have, since you are reading this shit. Who hasn't right? But your problem isn't that you made that mistake. Your problem is that you can't get over making this mistake hence the regret.

Everyone can call you amazing, but if you can't call yourself that, you won't ever feel amazing. So how do we feel we are amazing? Especially when the person we love decides to abandon us.

Even they can't tell you for sure what caused them to feel that. So they make rational sounding reasons why they want to break up. They need to do that for you and, more importantly, themselves.

When you choose to remain her friend. It shows her that there is no consequence to breaking up with you and here is why that is dangerous.

You did not lose a pencil sharpener. You lost the love of your life. So, it's okay to feel sad. It's okay to be miserable! It's okay to feel depressed and hopeless.

Accept the situation you are in. Admit to yourself. That you are in a shit storm right now. Does accepting the break up get rid of these horrid feelings? Not exactly. But it is the crucial first step to healing.

.You are sad, confused, angry, depressed, and sometimes numb. You go from sad to angry then to numb. Or you are just sad all the time or even just angry all the time. I am here to tell you that whatever emotions you are going through is normal.